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The life of an ENFP

I have taken so many personality quizzes in my life but my favourite has always been the Myers-Briggs personality quiz.

You can take the quiz here. Or you can google it and find a more accurate one according to your taste. Your choice.

I have found the Myers-Briggs personality quiz to be the easiest to take and the results are quite accurate. Not only that, the results are understandable too.
Harder ones are sometimes too complicated but I love those too.

Anyhow, I am an ENFP.
In some ways, it's quite true. I am that way, in some sense.

But of course, I have to remember that the personality type result is not everything. I am more than just an ENFP. I am also a person. 
But having a personality type result do help to explain alot of things and make  you feel less alone at times. lol.

Anyhow, as an ENFP, we have a major problem at times.
We are both feeling and intuitive.
So that means, we are good at perceiving things and noticing little details of people. We like to pretend that we understand people or are learning to understand them.
We like looking for symbols and signs and finding the meaning in them.

But sometimes, there is no symbol or hidden meaning.
Sometimes, we are so eager to find symbols and interpret so hidden meanings.
And there is none.
And that is when we get it so wrong.

When ENFP gets it right, we get it right but when we get it wrong, we get it so wrong.

I been talking to someone lately.
And like usual, my ENFP senses kicked in. 
I started to look for symbols and everything. 
I started trying to discover hidden meanings.

And now, I don't even know if I have created these "hidden meanings" and put them in or if it's real.

This is where being an ENFP is tough because I clearly want to know the truth but at the same time, I am so afraid that it will create an awkwardness.

So yea.

Sighs.



Comments

Happy "Sam" said…
ESFJ

Personality:
ESFJ
Variant:
Assertive
Role:
Sentinel

You are one of the Sentinels - a reliable and dedicated individual who respects traditions and prizes responsibility. You are known for your enthusiasm, social skills and caring nature. Above you will find a brief overview of your personality traits - proceed to the type overview to learn much more about your personality type. Prepare to be impressed.

hehe !!
I get this

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