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Funny what people think.


I have always been interested in what people think about me.

I have always been curious in how they see me. 
Because I can't see myself through their eyes. It'll be one point of view that I'll never be able to experience.

So the only best alternative is to ask people and get their opinion of me.

Some people thinks that by asking these questions, I am annoying. I don't mind being called annoying because that's not quite false either because sometimes, I know I am annoying. hahaha

But some people have said that because I asked these questions, I come across as a person who doesn't know myself.
I find that hilarious because I do myself but I am doing this because I want to know more about myself.

And sometimes, through this, I get to learn more about myself.

Even I have to admit that I don't myself completely. I am complex with many many layers and you can never stop learning about yourself because I am constantly changing.

So I find it interesting when people say that. 

Another thing that people said about me is that I seem indecisive because I ask for people's point of view when I'm deciding.

But that's not true.

I want people's opinions and thoughts because it gives me a different perspectives on things.

I like to view things from as many perspectives as possible before I decide because I want to be as informed as possible.

And that's just how I work.

I'm not indecisive. I just don't like closing up possibilities. I like to keep things open and see where that bring me.

And that's just the way I am~!

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Happy "Sam" said…
Yes,
good !!
^_^

Thank you !!
ESFJ ~
One of the more calmer and stable types

hehe !!
Keep in touch !!
Add oil !!
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